Wednesday, November 20, 2002

Video Chics...

What's up with all these men wanting Video Chics? You know the kind with no fat on their whole body and look like they have never ate anything in they life from McDonalds. I'm not hating. I use to have a pretty body. But thanks to gaining 40 pounds in my pregnancy and a C-section, that pretty body is gone for life. I have stretch marks every where! Including the back of my knees. How do you get stretch marks in the back of your knees? But I've come to live with them. I have tons of stretch marks on my stomach, along with loose skin. My stomach looks like Freddy Krueger got to it. But what can I do. I can't afford surgery or a tummy tuck. I can loose the weight, but I will never have those sexy TLC abs. Umm, not happening. Not all women get stretch marks. It depends on the elasticity of your skin. Because I have very dry skin, it doesn't stretch too well. I got my first preganancy stretch mark when I was around 7 weeks. I was very bloated during my pregancy and had tons of fluid swelling my stomach, legs, and feet. Not everyone carrys children the same. My pregnancy was an ordeal. One that is not remembered with fondness. But nevertheless, my son is here now, and he's happy and healthy. I'm not looking forward to having anymore children. To be frank, I do not think my son will have any siblings. Unless I marry someone with kids.

It's been said, the average American woman is a size 12-14. Video chics aren't the norm. Most of us are thick in the thighs and have a little baby pudge left over. What surprises me is that men are looking for this "ideal woman." And it's always the men who aren't too "in shape" that long for that petite woman with a big behind. Hey, maybe we can go to the gym together, but don't complain about my bulge, cause you got one too. I'm still strugglin to lose baby weight. A size 6 is not realistic to me. I haven't seen a size six in around 5 or 6 years. I might get there one day, but I have a million and one other stresses to think about. Rent, bills, car notes, insurance. I don't have time to sleep, let alone be in a gym 24/7. Maybe if I didn't have a child. But who knows. Wide hips and thick thighs run in my family. Bottom line fellas, stop looking for a "video chic." Look at the inside first, you might find someone you can love.

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