I'm sitting here listening to My Life... Which in my opinion was one of the most prolific R&B albums ever. In 1995, Puffy was coming into his own and making his mark on the industry. And while Mary has a lot of nice CD's, there will only be My Life... Okay, I just needed to say that... While there's nothing wrong with reminiscing from time to time, when it comes to love, you can't live in the past. If the only reason your relationship is working is because of all the years you had together, then it's really not working. Love grows... And that's one thing as women they we must begin to understand. Women are loyal creatures by nature. Have you ever wondered why in the animal kingdom that most of the hunters are female, and female dogs are the most protective? That's because a woman or a female will kill for the one she loves. And she will also quickly hurt the one that betrays her. Men have to grow into love. They just don't wake up one day and be like damn I'm in love... As a woman I find myself impatient with love... I often think that just because I love a man that he has to love me the same way I love him. Men express love a lot differently. I read today that thought of marriage and commitment can be compared to eating the same type of sandwich everyday. And while having sex with your partner can't really be compared to eating a turkey sandwich, I do see where one could get bored of eating Turkey on Wheat every single day of their life. The author then went on to say that men who have trouble making commitments are too hungry and the sandwich they have at home just isn't going to hit the spot. I think that was a great comparison.

As far as me and my relationship, well I don't know what to make out of it. Let's just say I eat Turkey on Wheat all the time... But only by choice. I don't have to eat it... It's just my favorite!!!