I always wanted this "perfect relationship." One that was clean cut, with no gray areas. But in life, you rarely find perfect. Life isn't a Walgreen's commercial. My past relationships have been filled with complicated issues. Some say I always go after men with baggage. They might be true. But what I've found in life is that you cant always get what you want, but if you try sometime, you just might find, you get what you need.... I'm giving a gold star to anyone who knows where that quote came from... No cheating.... Anyhow, that quote is so true. You're not going to find a perfect person. People aren't perfect. And because we are only made in the image of God, we can never begin to fathom just what perfect is. In this present day in age folks have expressed some sort of perfection standard. People want mates with perfect bodies, perfect minds, perfect educations, and perfect situations. But in this day in age, you gotta realize that perfect is not reality and reality is not perfect. Sure I wish I had an ass like the girls in King Magazine, but I don't. That's reality. And sure I wish I had a 6-pack, but I don't, and that's reality too. But I have a huge heart, a creative mind, and a generous nature. All the other stuff like body shapes, well it can be somewhat irrelevant. Bodies fade. Have a couple kids and that six pack turns into mush and stretch marks. And your fat ass will most likely drop. Sure you can get that flat stomach back, but most of us don't have the time nor the energy. You gotta take care of kids, home, husband, work...It's enough to drive any woman insane.

To all those people out there looking for Mr and Mrs. Right, don't let this cultures standards affect your judgment. Pick the person that's right for you. Pick the person that makes you laugh and smile. Pick the person that knows how to make you feel good. Pick the person who suits your needs, whatever they may be. There's somebody for everybody out here. And just because your Mr. Right isn't your friend's idea of Mr. Right, then so what. He's not her Mr. Right... You feel me?